In a recent Time Magazine, the issue of a being someone's "placeholder" was raised.  Although they were talking about straight women being used as placeholders, this also applies to gay relationships.  If you didn't know, a Placeholder is someone who you do not intend to commit to, but you stay with because it's better than being alone.  You expect someone expect someone hotter, smarter, wealthier, or better to come along in the future.

Before voting in the poll, think about your past relationships and a decide whether or not you were a placeholder or used someone as a placeholder.