Some of us live in gay Meccas where you can step out a see another gay man within minutes or seconds. And some of us live in sparser, and perhaps more discreet areas, where it's hard to tell or find another one of us.

For this poll, let us know if you have any gay neighbors.  They might live next door, in the apartment building across the street, or somewhere in your subdivision.  Don't count your partner or anyone living with you.  Read through the answers and choose the one that best describes your situation.